His mother's ashes were lost in the mail. In his search, he's found only frustration — and fury. - The Washington Post
Nov 29, 2018Courtesy Donald Mink) Amy B Wang General assignment reporter covering national and breaking news October 24, 2017 Donald Mink wasn’t prepared for the call that came on Feb. 23: His mother had died in North Dakota, just days after entering hospice at the age of 77. Mink, at home in Indiana, was suddenly faced with a dilemma: How could he lay his mother to rest from several states away? Donald Mink and his mother, Mary Louise Mink. (Courtesy Donald Mink) He decided to have his mother’s body cremated, then to send her ashes to Seymour, Ind., so he could bury them in her home town, between his grandparents’ graves. The state of North Dakota would cover the cremation costs, since his mother had been a ward of the state. Mink would pay the $65 shipping fee. So on Feb. 28, the cremated remains of Mary Louise Mink were shipped by the North Valley Crematory in Grand Forks, N.D., via U.S. Postal Service Priority Mail Express. Donald Mink said he was told to expect the package to be delivered to his home within two days. His mother’ ashes never arrived. What followed, Mink said, were months of anguish, legal disputes with both the crematory and the Postal Service, and an alleged falling-out with his own attorney. Now, eight months after his mother’s death, he still doesn’t know where her ashes are, and may have no recourse. Mink, 43, told The Washington Post the situation began to escalate in mid-March, when he called the crematory to ask why he hadn’t received the package. An employee answered, Mink recalled, and “his exact words were, ‘The post office is supposed to get a hold of you.’ I was like, why? ‘Well, they’re going to call you and explain everything to you, and they’re going to make it right.’ “He tells me that the post office told [him] not to give me a tracking number. I called the post office. The lady on the other end said there’s no way that they’d ever d...

